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Lately my wife's sister got inquisitive concerning what had happened to her first husband after they got separated. That marriage had finished badly and they hadn't been in contact for just about thirty years. She tried searching for her ex-husband's name on Google and Yahoo but didn't get any hits. Knowing I do research online in my work as a qualified writer, she asked if I might discover anything.

I write for business and technical newspapers, hence I use several pricey databases for in-depth investigation. But I recommended she try an easier option - a way out I use myself when I want to search for somebody fast and easily. I suggested she try one of the people search database services. Even the better ones charge so less, they're practically free. Most offer a trial period. I gave her the name of one to try.

She was uncertain. She's not very comfortable using her computer for much more than email. Her try at the search engines had by now left her upset. Now she was going to have to "sign up for something and understand something completely new... oh my goodness," was the way she put it.

Yet, later the same day I recommended it, she emailed back excitedly. In a few minutes, she'd discovered all sorts of information regarding her ex. It turned out that he'd done something of a turnaround after they'd split. Their separation resulted from clashes over his serious drinking problem. After they got separated, though, he'd eventually gone back to med school, gotten his MD and become an orthopedic doctor. He'd even been instrumental in inventing some kind of device utilized by other doctors in his field.

Unluckily, the poor fellow had died, but at least my sister-in-law found console in knowing that things had worked out for him inspite of everything. She said that even if their relationship ended in the most awful imaginable way, it had began from a good point. She said she hadn't actually wanted to contact him. She merely wanted to know what had happened to him.

At times all we want is only to satisfy our inquistiveness regarding what happened to somebody we've lost track of. Many of us have an old pal or associate we still wonder about.

A Better Way to Find People

I suspect that's what makes individuals searching so hot. As many as half a million times a month, someone searches on Google alone, searching for a way to find a lost individual. Whether it's somebody from the past with whom we've lost contact, or somebody we met last weekend and desire to see again, were always hunting for others.

Unfortunately, many general searches fail. Just like Googling failed for my sister-in-law. The information is out there, somewhere. But being forced to sift through so many unrelated results makes it almost impossible.

By the way - nearly all searchers are not familiar with this - search engine results don't really extend beyond about a thousand entries. Also when the search engine results page says they found millions and millions of hits, they don't really bother to expose it and give you access to all of it. They're actually just estimating from their own database tables. Even they understand it's a waste of time.

When You Go for a Private Search Service, Here's What to Seek

If you choose to try out a private search database, here are the things I've found vital to consider during a review

Free vs. Paid

I've been disappointed by the free services. Their major concern seems to be to try and get you to click on a few pay-per-click advertisements they're presenting.

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